Emotions change. So on the flipside; when you miss her and feel how strong you want her back, won't the divorce make you hurt even more?
I see were you're going and I probably would feel the same. But I would personally think hard about "am I ready for it?"
Well this hurt is coming one way or another. Why not get it over with while I am used to being down instead of waiting to pick myself up to make sure that I fall even farther. There has never been a question of me wanting her back. She is the one that left me for OM and she is the one that wants the D. I have never wanted it. Honestly, I wouldn't be here if did. You'll notice at the bottom of the page is says "Save Your Marriage" not "Learn to Deal With Your Wife's Bad Decisions". I understand that is not always possible. I am ultimately just venting and looking for someone to show me where the fast forward button is so that wherever I end up, I'm happy and don't have to deal with this BS anymore.
When your coming out of a bad relationship, even going to a average one will make you wonder "what the hell was I thinking?".
