Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

I often felt like that as well. I just know from my close group of friends from this board, the BITS, that the D did not bring them what you think that it will. That hope was still there months after the D was final. That hope was still dashed months after the D was final. It didn't go away with the piece of paper.

I haven't gone through it though.

I will take your wise advice and just forget about it all together. I'm just pretty sure I'm being used as either a B option or to pay for her health insurance at this point.