The crack in my separated life...

[Sweetbriar]

I ended up responding this:

Me: I gave your question some thought and I dont think that you coming to the house for visitation is doable. I want to help facilitate a great relationship with you and the girls, but having you stay here would give mixed signals.

This is H response:

H: So that leaves me without a place of my own and without the ability to have my kids...I really should have considered my generosity a lot more carefully

Honestly, I cant imagine he thought I would say yes to this request...but maybe he thought I was considering it? Who knows, but its his problem to deal with...he had his chance to come back and make things work...and see his kids every single day...he chose to not take that chance...

I did not respond...