I think Denver said it well earlier. Get out there and live your life. For me, GAL'ing and my faith have been the best things to help with my patience. I am in a state where part of my life is just fantastic and there's a part of it that sux. I choose to concentrate on the part that's fantastic as much as I can. When I can do that, I have a great day. When I can't do that, I try to get back to a place where I can.