Starsky, thank you! His staying out all night and sleeping at her place drives me insane and makes me feel horrible about myself and horrible for my daughter. I will use what I stated above, but a bit stronger. I like your "don't bother coming home." I would hope my H will react the way your W did, but I also don't want to have a confrontation. Ugh... I am often torn between wanting to save my marriage and walking away, but I know I am the only one to make that decision.
