Hi Am I too late:
You live where I grew up, met H, and where he continues to work. Since we live in the SW suburbs now because of real estate, the NW has become the very source of my problems.
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i never hesitate to get togethet with family

I prefer life as a N-sider (parents, extended family still there) but it's what has put a wedge between H and I for so long because he won't always make the trip back between gigs so he wandered into the world of the LFront.

I am going to make my plans as usual, do my baking, and count on all the kids (21+ yr olds) who will drop in for some family time. We're that house on the block.

Victim mode is all H was in yesterday. Why, what, when will I, spew about our live's. He doesn't even drink but these people offer him life's freedom.

Oh well, your right not about them. The kids are going to dust off some game consoles and bring back some oldies for the day. I just found my Resident Evil original to set up and see if it still scares me silly.

Everyday I try to find one thing I enjoy that's not about my H or M. Maybe one day I will get a full pic of who I am today and that will be my priority focus.

Thanks again!


The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!