Hey jb -

If you think its heading for D, maybe you should consider filing. I don't know if my W's attorney was good, or if it's because my W is a woman, or if it was because she was the one that filed, but she clearly had an advantage with the courts and was in the driver's seat. They ran the show and I spent 9 months jumping through hoops and being ordered to do this and that.

It also may demonstrate to her that you are tired of the situation she's put you in and it may wake her up.

You have the most patience I have seen anyone have ever. Kudos to you, you've clearly grown and are a better man than most.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012