Ok so I started a new thread in the Separation forum, but to be honest I am still a newcomer and still need as much support as I can get, so I am going to start a new thread here. You can find my original thread here as well as the short lived thread in the Separation forum:
So I would appreciate any advice on what to do now that it appears that we are going to remain separated and out of contact until one of us decides to file papers. In my mind this is a stalemate that will only end in one way, and why delay the inevitable. She won't call me, yet she complains to her sister that I won't talk to her. I don't call her because I'm not supposed to. What now?!?!?
Agree with JB. Use the time wisely. That's what. I would substitute the word 'hard' as used in the first paragraph of JB's post, with the word 'impossible'.
You need to learn patience. You've just started this process. I was in a stalemate for 18 months... many of us here are in it for that long or longer.
With that said, if you are done... be DONE.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
