Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

Ok so I started a new thread in the Separation forum, but to be honest I am still a newcomer and still need as much support as I can get, so I am going to start a new thread here. You can find my original thread here as well as the short lived thread in the Separation forum:

Still together but trying to save this

Dealing with the reality of separation

So I would appreciate any advice on what to do now that it appears that we are going to remain separated and out of contact until one of us decides to file papers. In my mind this is a stalemate that will only end in one way, and why delay the inevitable. She won't call me, yet she complains to her sister that I won't talk to her. I don't call her because I'm not supposed to. What now?!?!?