In Legal Limbo - What is next?

[Grateful]

You're right. I have been a doormat lately. In regards to the house though, sure it would be great to see my kids more than 3 days a week, but my W is very appealing to me right now with some of the choices she is making. I was actually the one who hesitated when she asked due to not having peace with the idea. Then, she decided to come out and say she didn't think it was a good idea.