In our life, 10:30 is late. Anything after the time we went to bed is considered late. This is the way we've communicated time frames for years.
You're right. I was mind reading. I didn't ask why she slept on the couch. Should I have asked of is that considered asking her whereabouts?
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done