Yesterday morning I had flirted with her without problem. Then as the day wore on and I was told about the weekend I let it affect me and fell into more of the same behavior.
This morning it continued with the car stuff and that's when I told her I'm going to treat her as my GF b/c I will treat a friend/roommate differently. After I took a shower she went for one and we were moving on. I flirted with her again and before I left told her she's my girl, hope she can open up to me again, and come back to the bedroom.
I told my friend not to feed me info anymore b/c all it does is cause problems. She told me ok and I will be keeping up my end by not asking for info.
Since I had told her that I'm going to treat her as my GF that I need to help de-stress before I walked out the door for work I texted her that I tonight I want her to relax while I rub her feet. She didn't respond to that but did respond when I told her to watch out for the crazy drivers today. My plan is to keep my alpha Fran, act as if, just do it, and see what happens.
No more "talk" or anything like that. As far as that alpha frame goes, tonight if she gives me a hard "no" about running her feet I'm going to have a "your loss" attitude. I'm going to work on lightening up, laughing and taking a joke, and shut up about how I "feel" but I will keep just acting like she's my girl and flirting with her.
No advice needed, this is more for me to reference to remind myself what to do.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
