I don’t think this was successful DB behavior. Should I have ignored the fact that she stayed out and slept on the couch?
16. If you are in the habit of asking your spouse her whereabouts, ASK NOTHING.
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Should I have continued acting as-if?
12. Act as if you are moving on with your life. 13. Be cheerful, strong, outgoing and attractive. 14. Don't sit around waiting on your spouse - get busy, do things, go to church, go out with friends, etc. 17. You need to make your partner think that you have had an awakening and, as far as you are concerned, you are going to move on with your life, with or without your spouse. 18. Do not be nasty, angry or even cold - just pull back and wait to see if spouse notices and, more important, realize what she will be missing 19. No matter what you are feeling TODAY, only show your spouse happiness and contentment. Show her someone she would want to be around. 30. Do not be openly desperate or needy even when you are hurting more than ever and are desperate and needy.
