Do you really think 10:30 is late? If you had said 2am, maybe but she's 32 years old, 10:30 seems reasonable.
Maybe she slept on the couch because she didn't want to wake you or didn't want to get the 3rd degree. You don't know because you didn't ask, you assumed.
Shortly before I left she grabbed my arms and said something like, “What’s the matter?” I snapped back, “nothing.” She walked away frustrated saying, “fine. Be that way. Walk around being all passive-aggressive. If you have a problem why don’t you just say what it is.” I reached back for her and said, “Wait. Let’s talk about whatever this is.” She brushed off my reach and walked away.
Did this get you closer to where you want to be?
Think about why you reacted as you did.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
