Quite bluntly, if I go into "MY car" mode I might as well just not bother trying to repair the R, give her notice that she needs to move out, and in 30 days if she's not evict her. I might as well just give up.
You act like you come here for advice, but then whenever it's offered you build these crazy "reasons" why you can't even try it. Let's look back at your last car convo:
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Texting:
Me: I saw something that there's a possibility of snow tomorrow evening. Do you know if Mtown trick or treat is still on?
Her: Yes it is
Me: Ok, I'm probably going to need a ride but I don't know anybody who can run me around. So I could go with you guys, drop you off, or you can run me home fast, what do you want to do? Or another idea?
Her: Idk yet
Me: Ok
So to summarize, it's going to snow and you have a car. You ask GF for a ride in YOUR car because you "don't know anybody who can run you around" and she just doesn't know if she can handle that, it might be too much of an inconvenience. So you say "OK" and wait for her to decide whether or not you can be incorporated into her busy schedule.
TOTAL DOORMAT!! That has got to stop! No woman respects a doormat! Dude, it's YOUR car!!! SHE needs to coordinate with YOU, not tell you to go take a hike so she can do whatever she wants! Now if you think that stopping the doormat behavior means you might as well kick her out and forget about reconciliation, then you've learned absolutely nothing from DR, 5LL, MMSLP and this forum.
