Please stick to one thread for now, it makes it easier to track your sitch and see what advise others have posted to you. Your main thread is here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...531#Post2292531

You might want to copy/ paste your post from here into the main thread.

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57