Hey G- I would discuss your living arrangements with your lawyer before you do anything and how it could affect things.
This is the right advice at this point. I wouldn't make any semi-permanent plans like an apartment without checking with L first.
W: 40 Me: 44 M: 12 years Together: 14 Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1) EA started in April, discovered in 07/12 ILYBNILWY: 07/12 MC Started: 09/12 Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12