wishing, I'm sure he was not happy to hear that the court date is in January. He most likely thought the date would have been in December. Poor baby! He's getting what he asked for and he doesn't like it.
I'm sure he is getting sick. The stress is getting to him and he'll be sick a lot in the days to come.
Your h wants to appear as a united front when meeting w/D's teacher. He doesn't want to go by himself because then the world would know that something isn't right in your home. If won't commit to a time/date, go w/o him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
