Okay so here is a kick in the....wallet! Don't here anything from W all day until I'm about to leave work. Several texts about how we are evidently overdrawn on our account and are broke. Great right? So that definitely outs a damper on Jody. Thoughts ob CXing IC appt? I have a 24 be so I still have time. He's a nice guy, but again, not sure how helpful he has been other than letting me vent. You all do that for free and offer better advice imo.
Other notes, so I come home, a bit numb and not really surprised about our bank accounts. We have always struggled with budgeting. Fortunately we each get paid the next or two. So we have a talk about money. I did all the bills. I let her know that I was expecting her to use all the accrue info I gave her weeks ago to take care if her stuff. To level the playing field financially and encourage her to participate. We all know she failed on that one. She now realizes that I wasn't being as controlling when it came to expenses. Also, I have asked for her help countless times, before the bomb, but never got it. So reality hit her / us in the face. We talked more, and it ended up in a similar R convo that we've been having. Only exception is that I did let her know I felt done. Tired of the roller coaster and not hanging in for the sake I'd the kids or anything now. It is true (fir now) and jarred her a little. We ended yet another convo with the same fears of returning to a bad M, her being depressed, blah blah. What a wonderful day - note the sarcasm. I'm okay, just not sure at the moment of what direction to take. Going read a little and hope everyone has had / is having a good day / night.
