Mine also came out of left field and I sat on this computer staring at these boards for the entire summer of 2009. I didn't sleep, dropped to 89 pounds and barely functioned. One day at a time.
NOW, life is better than I ever imagined and it gets better every day. I have new friends who love me for me and I get to do all the things I wanted to do, but HE didn't, so I twisted myself into a pretzel to stay married.
Be angry, grieve, be sad...feel every emotion. If you don't feel, you can't heal. And, you will.....
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10