Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

So I had a friend ask me something last night that I have been thinking about. He asked me that if she wanted a divorce then why hasn't she filed papers yet. For a split second I took that as encouraging. Then I thought about it and there are two other options to consider. I am still paying for her health insurance and her employer doesn't offer insurance. And number 2, she wants to see if this thing with the OM works out and wants a backup option to come back. Maybe it is a little from all three columns but I feel like I am being used a bit here.