H read relationship books before, and I didn't take it seriously. He gave me the book and I read a little bit and then ignored it. I thought I knew everything. In August, I told him I was reading some relationship book (it was not DR) At first he seemed a bit interested, even said he read that book a few times before ( in a blaming tone though ) and asked me to show him sometime, but later on, he never brought it up. I guess I'm trying to say I understand how he feels towards our M right now and I wish I could figure out what to do about it..