To me, perspective is what you see from where you stand. You might see more detail the longer you stand there, but you will never see it from another angle
To me, perspective is how you see something not what. My perspective is .. My view is what I see.
Just for clarification.
For clarity, what does your H say when you tell him you want more? Does he just brush it off? Does he try for a while and stop? Why does he keep going to the retreats? To try and find ways to meet your needs or to get you to meet his? Or both?
Curious - what is he seeing a counselor for?
I know, I'm full of questions
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."