Yes I agree with Accuray... However I personally am a little more harsh than to detatch lovingly.
Heck I just say they made their beds, now it's time they lay in them!
Yes Sweetbriar, I too got the spew of XH financial issues and it was all my fault. Don't fall for it. It's no different than a small child having a tantrum over not winning a game or not getting their way. It's hard when they spew, but he did start this. This is good you're getting more money than anticipated, Im happy to hear about that.