I was just going to say that it sounds like CV's love language is quality time. I wonder if your H would be open to hearing it put in the perspective of a love language.

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

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