That was to Another Stander. Yes it was blunt. When you are being threatened with financial disaster due to H withholding your money as a punishment because you are not playing 100% along with his game doing the DB should be put on hold.

If I read him wrong then I apologize.

But this do not upset the cheating Wayward at all or ever is sometimes the wrong advice. Especially when delivered right before you have to be tough as nails and work through the next few days with your lawyer and the battles that come from it to survive.

I already know your working towards protecting yourself. As I follow along and read your posts.

I have seen this happen to women and read about it time after time. It is sickening that a man would do that to his wife and children. To play games like that. Just like reading about women withholding children from their father.

Both are wrong. I will post strongly any time I think someone is telling a person to go along with it to not rock the boat.

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