Ruby, seriously -- enough talking. You've made your position known, and every time you repeat it to him you WEAKEN it, not strengthen it. Many of your posts have a real "THIS TIME I REALLY MEAN IT, I'M NOT KIDDING THIS TIME!" quality to them. That's not a dig -- just an observation -- but I do think the time has come for you to do whatever it is you want to do, and STOP TALKING ABOUT IT. All these convos with your H are crazymaking.
