I know not EVERYONE here is unhappy. I said MOST everyone. Of course, you're past the stage of MOST people on this site.
Originally Posted By: AJM
Were there any specific things he asked for that you didn't give him?
No.
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What were the specifics you asked for that he was unwilling to give you and why did he not want to? Just curious.
An example, gardening with me. He didn't want to because "gardening is a girl activity." Doing a jigsaw puzzle with me, because he "just doesn't 'get' it." There's more, of course, but hopefully this answers your Q.
Funny, I never thought of seeing the world as "running away." I've always thought of it as an experience that one is blessed to have the option of doing, which I've never had to this point. Heck, my 22yo niece recently spent a semester in Ireland and I'm incredibly jealous. I don't think she was running away.
Originally Posted By: AJM
Your view seems very focused on what he has done wrong during the marriage. What has he done right? What are his good qualities?
I listed a number of his good qualities in a prior post. He has a lot, they just aren't beneficial to ME or the M.
I think there's a big difference between wanting a knight in shining armor and wanting your S to be willing to spend more than two minutes doing a jigsaw puzzle with you. Especially since you were willing to spend 3 days camping with them. I believe a M should reciprocal. You don't have to agree. I thought it would be, it's not. I'm not sure what other answer you're looking for.
