Maybe talk to a kids crisis counsellor to sayers what they recommend with regard to your daughter. Once she knows that you've read her diary she will likely bolt emotionally and possibly physically and probably not trust hou for a very long time. None of you need that. Be compassionate and understanding, not punative or shaming. I was in her shoes (although my parents are still together) with regard to the experimentation at an early age. I ended up OK. She needs to feel safe and loved.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011