* Pretty rocky marriage for 9 years. Most of the bad is on me. Not all, but most. Talked about D off and on for past 3 years.
* Late August - I took a week of clothes to have a cooling off period and moved in with parents.
* Found out she filed for D two days before I left
* Been served and sent a counter
* Not much communication between us - mostly about two daughters
* Not doing a good job of DBing at all.
* Really messed up previous two days asking about MC and inviting her to lunch with expected results.
* Reread DR. Feel I must now use the LRT. We have two daughters, so I know contact will not be avoided completely, but I will not find any reason to contact her like I have been.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013
