Originally Posted By: lostforever
Im such an ass sometimes.... I drove past her house and saw this gay girls car there. They are like glued together. always with each other. she is such a bad influace to my wife....


What did you hope to gain by driving by her house?

I look at it this way... There's three possible out comes:
1. You drive by and don't see anything other than a house. You feel the same way you did before you drove by.
2. You drive by and see someone else's car and get frustrated.
3. You drive by and she sees you and get's upset with you for not giving her space.

Where's the positive outcome?


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done