Hey KG. I'm sorry that it took me so long to respond. Was kind of caught up in the election day stuff. First, thank you for your kind words.
I agree with Bond that women are probably more likely to be successful at reconciling than men. I have no stats to back that up, but agree with Bond's reasoning... women more emotionally attached to their OP than men are... usually.
I also agree with him when he says that your sitch is your sitch. The gender statistics don't matter. You have to deal with your circumstances.
I see that your H has filed for a D. What is the status of that? How long before final?
What are your interactions with him like presently?
I will try to go read some on your thread, but it may take me a while because I need to catch up with some work. I am also happy to discuss it here on mine if you want to give us a quick synopsis.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce