" I just wonder if you think I might need to rattle his chain a little."

If this^^^is what you REALLY want than do it. Otherwise becareful of what you ask for. I did that and guess what, I'm divorced. Think very carefully. Have you read the DB book? Do you want to save this M?.Do you have children? Is he having an affair?

And you should not tell him about your consultation with a L. What are some of his complaints about you? This takes time and change on your part. keep posting so we get to know you


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden