Ok, got it. Gotta have my kid with me. I have a "visit" tomorrow, and a "visit" Monday. Will send an email after the Monday visit, asking to have the toddler on the week-ends first as a transition phase. Then every other week.
I can tell you already that this will disrupt all the baby steps I have been making so far. Suppose it works, because she doesn't have a choice anyway, she will be very cold to me. Big time.
Do you realize I will lose the two visits a week that I had with her (it will become a simple exchange of toddler afterwards). I used these two visits to show myself upbeat and happy to see her, ask about her week, etc... I will have no more of it ! How am I supposed to recover the road to reconciliation from that afterwards?
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
