today I told him 100 percent she's gone or 100 percent I'm gone.

My problem is she manipulated and lied to him. Yet he is still on the fence. What is it about the fog? I mean if someone did this to me? I'd be all over and furious. What is wrong with affair people?

I told him this little stunt made me love him less and respect him less. That I was no longer waiting and being the good patient wife that now I am done. That the clock has begun ticking and he can dilly dally and take as long as he wants trying to figure it out because while he's wasting even MORE time on this, NOW I will using the time NOT trying to figure out how to save us but to get over him. I said no more talking, either you prove to me you want this and DO what needs to be done or I will get over you and move on with my life. That this is the thing that has finally pushed me over the edge to finally realize our marriage is over and I have no desire to bend over backward or try anymore.

WS moves out 9/11
OWH DD#1 12/11
FR#1 1/12
DD#2 2/12
WS leaves 4/12
WS tries FR#2 6/12
WS/OW move in 7/12
WS leaves OW 9/12
WS back with other OW 12/12
Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13
WS files divorce 8/28/13