Yes, she was emotionally involved with him. He was her high school old flame. And there wasn't as much as aggression in their relationship, she also felt like she could speak with him safely, but does not feel that with me. But she won't let me in. And when she does let me in now, it is a lot of feelings about this guy, which I really can't be sympathetic toward or feel right about.
We had a counselor, but will have to find a new one.