I am 8 months into a separation with my H. I just consulted with a divorce attorney (only to discuss my rights and concerns) and wonder if you guys think I should tell H.
Not sure what your sitch is, but if your H is MLC then if you tell him you're consulting a L he may fly into a rage. I don't know why, but despite all their talk about D, MLCers can go totally nuts when it's thrown back in their face.
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Divorce has never been an option for me and I don't think I would ever actually file, I just wonder if you think I might need to rattle his chain a little.
If you don't want D then don't threaten it because as the others responded you may get your wish. However, 8 months is a long time to sit in limbo. If there's been zero progress in that time and your goal is reconciliation then you do need to shake things up. You might consult with a DB coach to get some ideas.
