BTW, you shouldn't hold all responsibility with the OM. Your W willingly went into the relationship. If you don't see the emotional investment she had in it and get to that point yourself, you'll miss the boat.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.