fuanacdc, I will confess up front that I am not familiar with your situation.
However, that being said, in regards to the separated life, my advice would be to get out and GAL. Make your life great. You won't be as lonely, and there's a chance it may make you more interesting to your W. However, I do want to emphasize that the GAL'ing is for YOU.
It's not over until YOU say it's over. You have a choice to make a this point - do you want to end the M or do you want to wait and see how the A plays out. It does say in DR that a lot of As have a 6 month lifespan.
You may be watching your W too closely and may benefit from detaching some more.
