Originally Posted By: snodderly
Sunny,
Do not send the messages to the guy's fiance. If he is doing things behind her back, she will catch on quite quickly. As for your w, she may have been doing all of this flirting to see what your reaction would be or just to get you some gas. They love to jerk our chains and enjoy watching us twist and turn in the wind. Don't give her that pleasure. The less you react to her behavior, the better. They crave attention, whether it is positive or negative...they don't care.
What I would suggest is that if you still have the messages, print them off or store them in a safe place.


I actually took pictures of the actual messages ON her phone - so that is better than just the words which I got totally wrong by the way.

Its gonna be hard I see them all the time - but I will keep my trap shut - did I make a mistake giving him my best "I know what you're up to" look ??

One thing Snod - I am having a hard time with my wife's immorality - why would she go after someone fiance - not like her I don't get it.

Thanks again !!

Sunny


If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!