That's the way to do it. Catch yourself "being the old you" and stop it. Eventually you'll be able to stop it before you even start. You're re-writing the code on how you respond to situations. That's how change occurs.

Well done and I wouldn't worry about the backslide. It gave you a chance to show H a bit of the old you and how you are working on it. Now he'll really notice the new you smile .

I also like the reverse question. I'm not surprised he didn't see what you were driving at.

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then