Doesn't quite fit in any category covered in here

[Acy]

So this evening my W said:
she was overwhelmed
said I would make a good partner
she is afraid of being alone in the future
afraid that our son will not like her if she has OM
She dosent want to have to decide if she wants relationship with me or not
Wanted to know what would happen if I got bored (in the relationship) because im a gemini. I told her that would be my problem, not anyone else. (not bored because of her)
She said I am better now because I listen

This is when I said to much:
Then I screwed up and started talking about how I wasnt interested in a fairy tale fling with anyone. I wanted to do the work to make this work. That commitment and trust are what its all about in relationship. And some other type stuff. She got all trapped feeling and like she is trying to be convinced.

So I realized I screwed up. I kicked myself a bit for doing that. So the good half and the bad half, maybe it evens out...

I have a new 180 from it though -Dont try to convince her. let her alone about it.