Nice and need to become a hunter again? Yeah, I get the logic, and there is some truth to it depending on the woman. But this all still smacks of the logic that any woman, no matter how uninterested in sex, will want sex if ONLY the man behaves in the right way. Ergo, the man is always the problem.
But if you're posting here and your wife is not interested in fixing the problem, then you're alone in trying to fix it, so the logic makes sense in that context.
It just amazes me that otherwise intelligent women can sometimes be so stupid when it comes to sex. Of all the activities that a married couple participate in, sex is probably completely unique in being the sole activity that you are strongly committed to NOT doing with anyone else. So why is it that otherwise intelligent women don't seem to understand that you're really obligated to give sex special consideration with your spouse?
And just to be "fair and balanced" here, ha ha, let me observe that men can be just as stupid too, such as refusing to see the doctor about ED when the wife wants an intimate relationship.
I also think the definition of "cheating" in a marriage needs to be expanded to include withholding sex from your partner. If you shut your partner off, you are cheating them out of a basic life experience. Which is why I'm hesitant to judge people, like politicians, who are caught "cheating" on their spouses. The real story may be very different from what it appears.
