"Doesn't he want to be with his kids the whole week he has off?"

Right now, he's obsessed w/OW and the kids just get in the way. I hope you will see this change.

After 5 years and a life-threatening medical issue, my X has begun to show some--some--more interest in D.

I am not sure that he will ever give her the attention she really needs. He's missed out on a great deal with her, and I think he feels that some. But he's still in Selfish mode. Less than before, but it's still there.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D