bug- im no expert as you well know. just a thought. why do you think so much about the right way and wrong way to do things? you have great communication skills here. maybe think about that. idk... try things your way. apply the DB stuff to yourself. if something you try isnt working change it up. find what works for you. R are so hard. different people, different points of view. i know the brain freeze feeling. i found i get that when i am trying to do what i think others want me to do. im no mind reader. once i started doing what i think is right, it has gone away considerably. the golden rule is what i basically operate on.
anyway, keep your head up. keep smiling. you are soooo smart and strong.
