Am I kidding myself.

[Hopefull2]

Thanks all for your input.

Snodderly, kind of what i was thinking and to be honest she should be proud of her place, she has made it look very nice. I truly regret even giving her the option to buy vs rent but maybe in the long run it will help her gain some self worth and help her on her journey. And your reminder to us all on persuing a new relationship is well taken.

T2, your well thought out discussion is a good reminder to us all. We must realize the dangers of persuing another relationship but we must also beware that due to our situation we are on a slippery slope ourselves. Lets face it we all want what we do not have right now and that is to be loved and feel appreciated.

Hi Hopeful2,

I know how tough it is, man. I see W every frickin day, and on those days when she's attractive to me...ugh, pain, longing. But you know, maybe this is part of MY journey and lesson...to not be dependent on getting that, or anyone. To be okay on my own, to meet my owns needs. To learn and grow from this challenge and suffering.

Just my 2.5 cents...



T^2

I caught up with your sitch a few days ago and I just have no words. I am not sure how i would deal with the costant contact yet lack of affection. As i have read here somewhere "you don't know how tough you are until you have to be". We indeed are on our own journey of becoming stronger and in the end refined by fire...

Thanks all for your posts..