The crack in my separated life...

[Sweetbriar]

My friend has been a wonderful person to have in my life for these past 15 years. She is amazing and she truely does love me and my H.

So, after reading what happened in court...do you think he could turn around? Im thinking he is totally done..especially since today, the day after he is still asking to split everything. He doesnt seem to be sad at all at the outcome or that he wont see his kids much or that he has no money.

Maybe he is still not realizing what has been done?

I also am concerned that no matter what he may feel that his parents and OW have such a strong influence right now, that he may never even consider because of pride...how does someone want to come back after they have gone this far in their actions?

Is is possible?

Im better today..kinda detached..actually left some positive words to H in the last email...nothing begging or pleading or even implying..H responded that he appreciated the kind words and that he never envisioned this for us when we began. H said the he hopes that I remember those things I said about him as our we progress into our futures. He also wrote that he considers me into every decision he makes (hahahahah...im sure) and that he hopes I can recipocate that.