That's awful and I'm sorry to hear it, good for you for how you handled things. Note how your friend responded to your H -- that's what you want to model. She was detached, polite, didn't engage with his venom and took the high road. Look at how she responded and model that. You will get through this but you are right to try and get space for yourself.
Take care of yourself Sweetbriar
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
