Yes that line is true, but I never got the message..shame on me!
She doesn't want to separate until at least after Christmas for the sake of the kids.
We had a good heart to heart this morning and got everything in the open. I know R talk isn't good but this seemed to clear the air somewhat.
She seems to think we could play happy families until the separation. I beg to differ and said that while I appreciate her desire to leave, I could not do the happy family thing if she was going to continue communicating with OM. She is welcome to do as she pleases when we split but I don't feel I should be disrespected like that in my own home. I said that I would go along with her wishes of keeping the family illusion alive until after Christmas on the understanding that communication with OM also stops for now.
In some ways it feels like I did the right thing, but I am sure that you are all going to tell me I have made a huge mistake here!
I have decided that the nonsense stops here, rightly or wrongly. Im not going to be a doormat for her, regardless of my love.
I guess I will just have to take the consequences.
If its any consolation, she seems to have some respect for my position and has actually been more responsive to me since then. Im not sure how it will go from this point.............
