Also, as far as your wife will "try on" being nice to you to see how it feels, or if she gets comfortable may slide back into a familiar partner role
How does her statement of that touching each other doesn't feel normal fit? Par for the course or not?
Yup. Absolutely. And it may not come back so easily. You have to be VERY patient with her.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
